In his recent appearance on Joe Rogan, Mark Zuckerberg said that workplaces need more “masculine energy” and that the workplace had been “neutered.” Though I couldn’t bring myself to listen to the full 3 hour conversation, I began to ask myself, what about workplaces exactly have been neutered? And what masculine energy is Zuckerberg trying to bring back? Studies of men in workplaces – including some Equimundo: Center for Masculinities and Social Justice has carried out – find that a majority of men find it stressful to work in a hyper-competitive space where they can’t ask for help or be seen. The truth is most humans don’t thrive and are not their most efficient selves when they feel threatened, harassed, and belittled. We’ve heard accounts from staff working under leaders of tech companies who publicly belittled staff they thought weren’t performing, and even threw things at them when these male leaders thought their staff didn’t think they came to a meeting prepared. Is that the masculine energy Zuckerberg wants back? Many men like Zuckerberg lament the rise of ‘cancel culture,’ and that they get in trouble for making ‘harmless’ jokes. Is the normalization of sexual harassment in the workplace the masculine energy Zuckerberg wants back? Is he harking back to the Mad Men era when there were no women in the C-suite, in boards, or in most senior positions? Various news reports say that some Silicon Valley offices are having parties every night, celebrating Trump’s inauguration. Have they forgotten that they are celebrating a president found liable for sexual assault? Are they celebrating that masculine energy? The bottom line: a restrictive old-school version of masculinity is generally not good for men ourselves, for the people in our lives, nor for businesses. Nor for the world. Contrary to the ‘masculine energy’ Zuckerberg claims he wants to bring back to the workplace, Meta actually has one of the most generous paid leave policies in corporate America, and many workers say they’re satisfied with it. Does the manhood Zuckerberg wants to bring back include men taking time off for caregiving duties, like many Meta men are? If Zuckerberg’s definition of masculine energy includes caring for children and caring for the well-being of workers and users over profits, that’s great energy, whether masculine or feminine, or just plain human. If Zuckerberg’s masculine energy means men put care for others over themselves, stand up for those who are bullied or harassed, acknowledge the harm that some women and others face in the workplace, and put the collective over the individual, then I’m fully in agreement. That’s the human energy we all need. – To learn more about what we’re doing to promote caring versions of masculinity in the workplace and beyond, explore the Caring Masculinity Fund, which will support advocacy, programmatic work, and research to promote caring manhood. https://lnkd.in/e6CxXRzv
Thank you for this- so very true! We have so much more to do in this area.
Thanks for posting this Gary.
Mark Zuckerberg does not embody one iota of generative male energy. He lacks courage, an attribute seen in many male and female role models, and spent his time on the Joe Rogan podcast trying to establish his loyalty to the Trump regime. He, along with Jeff Bezos, Elon Musk, and Peter Thiel, are privileged social misfits, to put it mildly, and are demonstrating how the wrong kind of masculine energy is moving us closer to the techno-oligarchy over which they hope to be lords.
sounds very much like someone who is insecure about his masculinity on Zuckerberg's part.
Thank you for sharing
Fantastic to see this initiative!
So beautifully expressed, Gary Barker, PhD! Equimundo’s work resonates so deeply in this moment—grateful for all you and the team do to expand the possibilities and realize the potential for masculinity and male identity.
Always hits home! Thanks for this Gary. It is time to reflect and condemn what actually hurts (all of) us, even when it seems like a light banter, these words, evoke certain imagery and thus translate into corroborative actions! Keep doing the fabulous work. More power to you and the likes Gary!
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5moYou raise great questions about what Zuckerberg actually meant. I haven't watched the podcast so I'm holding hope that he'll take this opportunity to elaborate!